Monday, January 30, 2012

Bindings vs. Banishings

I was doing some research on binding for personal reasons prior to the PBP. I initially intended to bind this person to prevent them from further harassment of myself and my daughter, especially after my mother had passed away. So in researching this topic, I have found that there are several ways to bind a person. You could bind someone whom you have a strong attraction for, but, I would not want to do that. I want someone to love me for me, not because of a spell. Then there are spells to bind/prevent another person from harming or harassing you or someone close to you. But, from what I have read and my own perceptions, even then that person is bound to you is some way. Not so sure I’d want that either. I truly want this person out of our lives and to stop their verbal harassment. So I looked at banishing. Banishing is the removal of someone or something that is harmful in yours or your loved ones life. But, in both instances, one must ALWAYS think about what you are going to do before you do it. What are the consequences should I do this? What is doubly difficult is the fact that I am now in an apartment and really no access to a lot of privacy. This is a lesson in patience.
I am really sorry that these have been so limited in details right now. I am still mourning my mother. And on top of everything, this person that has been harassing myself and my daughter has compounded the stress.
Blessings to you gentle readers.


  1. Sending love and light your way!

  2. Sending healing and light to you and yours. Perhaps you might want to think about adding something to this person's life. It may be helpful to cast a spell that they are exposed to new interests. This way if they become interested in something else, they'll leave you alone, and you're not interfering in their free will, you're just asking the universe to show them other options for their energy.

  3. Thank you for stopping by my blog - how about using this time of Imbolc to symbolically sweep this person out of your life - somewhat gentler than a spell - just as you go about your daily clean - think of a little ditty you could say to allow you and your daughter some much needed space. I'm sorry for your loss of your mother - I lost mine 2 years ago - it never leaves us. BB

  4. Thank you for your kind comments. Your suggestions are definitely something for me to consider. I have enjoyed reading and learning from all of you. Light and Blessings to you.